2025 in Review

My nudge word for 2025 was balance. It’s difficult for me to remember a year that’s been so divided between moments when, in a cold sweat, I’ve thought, “I have no idea what I’m doing” and those when, in tears and triumph, I’ve thought, “I absolutely know what I’m doing.”

Is that balance? Who can say! Let’s review.

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My 2025 Word

To complete my look back at 2024 (see my year in review post and my stuff I really liked post), I wanted to revisit my 2024 nudge word: hungry. I spent the year reminding myself that it’s good to be ambitious. That it’s better to take risks and fail than to preemptively not go for stuff simply because I might not get it.

This is probably not a lesson that most people need to learn, but graduate school and some career bumps drummed the audacity clean out of me. So I spent a year trying to get it back.

I don’t know that I’ll ever be a truly bold person–though it was fun to spend a year writing Scarlett, the protagonist of Bold Moves, who has enough courage for a half dozen people. But I would settle for being less afraid of failure.

One thing that does scare me about the coming year is falling back into the malaise in which I found myself in during the previous Trump administration. So my nudge word for this year is balance.

I need to find that calm center where my day job and my writing and my life serve as counterweights to each other, in equal and correct proportion. Where I give myself time to rest and relax, where I don’t consumed by every news story and scandal, and where I don’t lose hope. That’s my aspiration for 2025.

Things I Really Liked in 2024

This wasn’t my best media consumption year. Some of that was due to the state of the world, and some of it was because of personal crises and a demanding stretch at my day job. But the result is that my list is slimmer than to normal. I hope that 2025 will be better, because I have to say the only way I’m going to get through the next four years will be art. I’m going to need all the art.

As always, the normal caveats apply: this isn’t a best of list, it’s merely a list of things I read, watched, and listened to in the last twelve months that made me happy or gave me thinky thoughts. If you’re curious, you can check out my previous year in reviews: 2023202220212020201920182017, and 2016.

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2024 in Review

This is a difficult year to take stock of because outwardly, I tried to project a sunny confidence that I did not feel. I didn’t talk about the hardest moments online. Suffice it to say, I spent more time sitting with family members in hospital rooms in 2024 than I could’ve predicted. Everyone is better now, but it was immensely challenging–and that’s setting aside the state of the world.

My nudge word for the year was hungry, and I did in fact go for it, even when my instincts were screaming for me to diminish and go into the west. I was rewarded in some ways, and I fell short in others. All together, it was a gratifying year…and it was a trial. The best I can say is that I persisted, and so let’s review.

In 2024, I:

  • Wrote and edited Bold Moves. This is my longest first draft to date (97K) and the longest of my revised books (95K). The revision process was also, quite frankly, a bear. If Bad Reputation was a book I wrote to the market, this was a book that I wrote just for me. I guess we’ll see how people feel about that choice in April 2025.
  • Promoted and released Bad Reputation. Thanks to the Amazon First Read, this book is on more people’s Kindles than anything else I’ve ever written. Cole and Maggie have been with me since 2015. I adore them, and I’m glad they’re out in the world.
  • Revised the first two-thirds of and finished drafting a thriller with romantic elements (aka the academic conspiracy book). This is a project I’ve been working on for THREE YEARS–I’m writing it on spec, so I had to fit it in between contracted projects–and it grew out of a seed from five years ago. It still needs a lot of work, plus my agent and I have to sell it, but the fact that it’s done is a massive relief. Watch this space for updates, I hope!
  • Drafted and submitted three proposals for contemporary romances. I didn’t think I could love an idea more than the first one, at least until I wrote the second one. And that was the idea until I finished number three. My heart is full with all of these characters, and I’m hoping someone will give me the go-ahead to write one of their stories next year.
  • Wrote 5K for a bonus epilogue for Bad Reputation, but it isn’t finished yet. So if you’re curious about Libby and Jack’s love story, I’ll have it for my newsletter subscribers, likely in a novelette length around Valentine’s Day.
  • Read 45 new-to-me books, and I’d be delighted if I could finish a couple more today.

In terms of my 2023 goals, I didn’t write two books and finish a third: I wrote 1.3 books, plus some bonus material. All together, I’m north of 140K new words for the year. I suspect 140-160K in a year is my sweet spot these days. As I make goals moving forward, that’ll be my target.

Next year, I’d like to sign some new contracts and to write 1.5 books. I’d like to be chill about my 2025 release. I’d like to be on social media less, and I’d like to move and stretch more–intellectually, creatively, and physically. And I’d like to read more.

May 2025 be a year of growth and love for us all. xo

(I’ve been producing some version of this post for as long as I’ve been blogging my writing. You can read about my 2023202220212020201920182017201620152014, and 2013 respectively.)

Things I Really Liked in 2023

All my normal caveats apply: this isn’t a best of list, it’s merely a list of things I read, watched, and listened to in the last year that made me happy or made me think. And honestly, it was a very solid year for media for me. In particular, I read lots of books that I liked, and it was a bit hard to narrow things down. Thus I did include a few honorable mentions here and there.

With that, let’s dive in!

If you’re curious, check out my previous year in reviews: 202220212020201920182017, and 2016.

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2023 in Review

No matter how you slice it, 2023 was a good year for me. But the way I know that is not simply my accomplishing several tasks, it’s my hungering for 2024. At the close of 2022, I was buzzing with anticipation. I had worked so hard on Chick Magnet and Funny Guy, they were finally going to see the light of day.

The sun has risen and set on them now. I love these books. I love what they taught me and how I had to grow to write them and revise them and market them. But what I’ll always be most grateful to them for is that they helped me see the future. They weren’t the highest mountain, it turns out, but having climbed this hill, I can see it now, in the distance. I just have to keep going.

Let’s look back first, though.

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2022 in Review

The last twelve months were about 2023. In other words, all the work I’ve done has been future-looking. I have felt as if I were paddling so hard, but in many ways, I’m in the same place I was last year. Or, to mix my metaphor, maybe I’ve edged a little closer to the waterfall, but I haven’t fallen over the precipice–yet.

In the last twelve months:

  • I revised Chick Magnet yet again, adding about 10K to the book (and then pruning it back). I also laid marketing groundwork, because, had I mentioned it?, it’ll release on January 24, 2023.
  • I wrote and revised Funny Guy. The polished word count is 80K, but I suspect I wrote and deleted at least an additional 10 or 12K. This will release on May 16, 2023.
  • I revised and rereleased the entire Political Persuasions series. This includes at least 15K new words, most of which went into “Aspiring” (in The One You Crave). That novella is my only wholly new piece of writing published this year. I also did some marketing for the series, and it’s currently in KU.
  • I researched and then wrote 25K words for a secret project. I’m not super happy with it, so I’ve taken a few steps back, and it’s marinating. Getting this finished and into a submission-worthy state is one of my key goals for 2023.
  • I began work on a major revision/rewrite of a series that’s on my hard drive, with the goal of going out on submission with it early in 2023. I’ve written at least 10K new words for this.
  • I read 56 new-to-me books.

In terms of my 2022 goals, I played piano most days (logging practices on Twitter with the #RomancePianists hashtag). I didn’t start jogging again, alas. I stayed off social media…in fits and starts. But I did write approximately 150K new words, which is my best writing year since 2016. Except I didn’t achieve my stated goal of writing two books. I may need to reevaluate whether two books is achievable for me these days, or whether I have to settle for writing one, plus revision/marketing and life-ing.

Taken as a whole, it was a year of labor that will bloom–or wither–in the next year. I’m not displeased when I look back, but on reflection, my primary emotion is anticipation.

(I’ve been producing some version of this post for as long as I’ve been blogging my writing. You can read about my 20212020201920182017201620152014, and 2013 respectively.)

Things I Really Liked in 2022

How is it the end of the year? I mean…how? It feels as if I just wrote one of these, and yet here I am, writing another one. What I can say for 2022 is that I survived it. But it’s been a low-hanging thing, more endurance than thriving. Despite that, my year was brightened by books and television and music, so let’s focus on the sparkles.

What follows is a list of cultural artifacts that I consumed this year and that I thought were pretty cool. As always, this isn’t a best of list because I simply don’t read, watch, or listen to enough stuff to write one of those. According to my Goodreads challenge, I read 56 books in 2022. That’s decent, but I read across genres enough that I don’t think I could–with a straight face–tell you what the best books of this year were. These are the just the ones I really liked. (And the same goes for music, TV, etc.)

If you’re curious, check out my previous year in reviews: 2021, 2020201920182017, and 2016.

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2021 in Review

There is a way of looking at this year that is triumphant, at least personally. But while I achieved some substantial and long-term goals, as I face the end of the year, my primary emotion is exhaustion.

This was the first year that I haven’t published anything since 2012. While I know that gaps are normal and healthy even, there’s some panicked part of me that feels like it was a year when I lost ground, but I know that’s just the 2021 speaking.

So in the last twelve months:

  • I finished writing and then revised Chick Magnet.
  • After that, I started querying agents. In April, I signed with Sarah Younger, and I can report that she’s AMAZING.
  • I then revised Chick Magnet again, and Sarah took it out on submission over the summer. In October, we announced that we had sold it (and another standalone contemporary romance) to Montlake. The expected publication date is early 2023.
  • Over the summer when I wasn’t frantically refreshing my inbox, I wrote about 15K for a novella. I also wrote proposals for Montlake, and, once they selected one, I began writing that book. I also worked to revise some things for rerelease (more news about that soon). All told, I wrote about 50K words in the last twelve months.
  • I read 58 new-to-me books.

All together, it was a year of sporadic triumph and daily struggle, which makes it pretty much par for the 2021 course. Here’s to hoping that the balance will shift in 2022, and we can all lean harder into the celebration side in the coming year.

(I’ve been producing some version of this post for as long as I’ve been blogging my writing. You can read about my 2020201920182017201620152014, and 2013 respectively.)

Things I Really Liked in 2021

It seems impossible, but it’s that time again! Time for my year in review posts.

This was a marginally more normal year for me in media. In less I sneak a few more in under the wire, I read 58 new-to-me books (see my Goodreads year in review here), not counting rereads, and I listened to LOTS of music. Here’s my Spotify top 100, though I think this is skewed by the fact I mostly listen in the kitchen, and so it doesn’t include the music that I really become obsessed with as I always purchase that. Some of the biggest, buzziest titles didn’t work for me, but the things that did really, really did.

I add my normal caveat that this isn’t a best of the year list, but rather, a list of things I thought were especially meaningful and cool. These are not in a particular order. And as always, you can look back at my previous year in review posts: 2020201920182017, and 2016.

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