Banging on Screen Is Great, Actually

Like many elder Millennials, my first experience with sex on screen came during Top Gun—and no, I don’t mean the iconic beach volleyball scene. I’m referring to the 79 seconds in which Maverick and Charlie get it on to the strains of “Take My Breath Away.” The entire thing is shot in blue-toned silhouettes, with billowing curtains, perfectly manicured nails, and tongue choreography. While there’s not much nudity, for a movie with a PG rating, it made my eyes pop.

The scene is famous enough that last year, Screen Rant ran a piece by entertainment journalist Cathal Gunning exploring why it’s “so bad” and celebrating that Top Gun: Maverick isn’t burdened with anything as cringe. Why are you polluting my action movie with stuff that doesn’t belong: that’s the argument.

Opponents of on-screen sex don’t stop there. In a review of Magic Mike, critic Ross Douthat asked, “Is sex necessary?” To which I would reply, “Is anything in a movie or on television necessary? Channing Tatum didn’t have to make a trio of films about masculinity, capitalism, and the power of the transverse ab, Ross, he chose to.”

And more recently, reviews of the latest season of Bridgerton focus on the show’s salaciousness, labeling it “steamy” when they like it and bemoaning that it feels “familiar,” though with more “ripping and removal of bodices,” when they don’t. If sex is present, it seems hard for some viewers to see anything else.

Look, I am not saying that all media needs sex, and I’m certainly not saying that you, dear reader, have to consume or enjoy these depictions. But arguments such as these come out of a tradition of censorship and ignore that sex in the media can add to characterization and that even when it doesn’t, it can be beautiful, fun, and, yes, titillating. Sex is as cinematic a subject as any other, and it should be treated that way.

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A signing, a series on sale, and a title announcement

So I am doing my very first in-person reader event at Novel Grounds, a romance book in Chesapeake, Virginia, on October 12. You can reserve a ticket here, and the price includes a print copy of Bad Reputation—which I will happily sign for you.

Until now, I haven’t done any signings because I didn’t feel like a “real” author. I still don’t, to be honest. But I’m trying to fake it until I make it and to be more confident about promo. (Is my confession adding or detracting from the effect?) It would certainly help me own it if someone shows up for this event. So I would love, love, LOVE to see you there.

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Odds and Ends

Firstly, Funny Guy—my friends-to-lovers romance featuring a chaos Muppet comedian realizing that he’s in love with his order Muppet BFF—is on sale for the month of July in North America only (sorry about that!). For just $1.99, this somewhat polarizing book can be yours. You can grab it at Amazon, and I hope you will.

Secondly, I have two items up for grabs in the Romancing the Vote auction, which opened TODAY and closes on July 5. Option A: you can bid on a signed ARC of Bad Reputation, and I’ll throw in a friendship bracelet that matches the cover. Or if you would prefer, Option B is a Backyard Chicken starter pack, which includes two guides on keeping chickens, plus a signed copy of Chick Magnet, and a 30-minute Zoom call with me. We can talk about chickens if you have them/are thinking about getting them, or we can talk books: seriously, ask me anything!

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The Cover You’ve Been Waiting For…

I’ll get right down to it: I’m so excited to be able to share the cover for Bad Reputation with you! Designed by the incredible Caroline Teagle Johnson, it absolutely captures the vibe of the book. Plus it’s objectively lovely.

If you need to hear the pitch again, Bad Reputation is a workplace, friends-to-lovers romance about two people with bad reputations who just might be able to change their lives–if they can only resist falling for each other. I absolutely adore this book, and I hope you will too.

You can preorder Bad Reputation at Amazon and add it to your Goodreads shelves now. And if you happen to be a reviewer, I do have an ARC request form here. I don’t have my ARCs yet, but I love to plan ahead.

And while I have your attention: Funny Guy is on sale this month in North America. The ebook can be yours for just $1.99 at Amazon, and the paperback is currently discounted too if you need a copy of Sam and Bree’s pining-filled, late night comedy romance for your shelves.

Romancelandia TV!

Last weekend, I had the AMAZING luck to record an hour of fun and games with many of my all-time favorite romance writers, including Olivia Dade, Jenny Holiday, Xio Axelrod, Charlotte Stein, Mia Sosa, Nikki Payne, April Asher, Anita Kelly, and Gwenda Bond. It was such a good time!

And on February 18, you can watch the LIVE world premiere here, and all these talented, hilarious, and smart folks will be in the comments. It’s possible that there will be prizes and giveaways (there will be), and it’s going to be a sheer delight.

Come on, you know you want to.

Audio Giveaway

Galentine's Giveaway with the covers for 16 books, including sweet bliss, talk of the town, too soon for adios, big chicas don't cry, funny guy, stars collide, read between the lines, chick magnet, the jake ryan complex, see jane snap, the bounce back, anatomy of a meet cute, her own happiness, the bennet women, the wedding confession, and the wedding shake up

I am delighted to partner with an amazing group of authors, including Annette Chavez Macias, Addie Woolridge, Eden Appiah-Kubi, Bethany Crandell, JJ Knight, Rachel Lacey, and Jennifer Bardsley, to give one lucky reader–and their friend–the ultimate audiobook library celebrating love and friendship. Celebrating it 16 times, that is. That’s right, we’re going to send the winners 16 audiobooks, which should keep them busy for a while. You can enter here, and may the odds be ever in your favor.

Also, the back cover copy for Bad Reputation is LIVE, and I answered a few frequently asked questions about it here. I’m so in love with this book, y’all, the wait until October is killing me.

My 2024 Word

I’m about to do something shocking. I’m going to pick a word for myself for 2024.

I have never done this before because it seemed…hubristic. Maybe it’s something that could be done in retrospect. Looking back at a period in my life, perhaps I could tell you what the theme had been. But to try to project a theme into the future? Not for me.

Except the more I thought about it, the more I realized that what held me back was fear, the fear of not getting it. If I declared that I wanted cake, and I didn’t get cake, that would be mortifying. 

There was a season in my life when I wasn’t this afraid, when I wanted things for myself and when I pursued them. But quite frankly, that was followed by a period where I did not get the things. And it was not super pleasant.

But a few days ago, I was reading Finishing the Hat, and in it, Sondheim says of Leonard Bernstein that what he taught young Stephen was to never fall off the bottom rung of the ladder. You’re going to fail sometimes, but don’t fail small.

What on earth do I want, I wondered. What wasn’t I going after that I ought to be going after? Which of course made me think about Mary Oliver: “You only have to let the soft animal of your body love what it loves.”

So I’m doing it, folks. I’m picking a word for 2024, and it’s hungry. Because I want to be brave enough to be hungry again. To let myself admit that I want what I want. And not to be so afraid of falling that I won’t climb up the darn ladder in the first place.

Things I Really Liked in 2023

All my normal caveats apply: this isn’t a best of list, it’s merely a list of things I read, watched, and listened to in the last year that made me happy or made me think. And honestly, it was a very solid year for media for me. In particular, I read lots of books that I liked, and it was a bit hard to narrow things down. Thus I did include a few honorable mentions here and there.

With that, let’s dive in!

If you’re curious, check out my previous year in reviews: 202220212020201920182017, and 2016.

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Odds and Ends

How would you like 2000+ FREE books? Yes, it’s that time again: Stuff Your eReader Day! Just visit RomanceBookworms.com and browse the amazing selection of books on offer. I skimmed the list, and I would particularly recommend that you check out Zara Keane, Carrie Lomax, Nicola Davidson, Asa Maria Bradley, Rachel Grant, Lucy Eden, Brighton Walsh, K.M. Jackson, Annika Martin, J.A. Rock, Ainsley Booth and Sadie Haller, Eve Pendle, Carrie Ann Ryan, Renee Dahlia, Kat Latham, Kate Meader, and Zoe York. And of course me.

If you haven’t read it, The One You Want, the first book in my contemporary political romance series, can be yours for zero pennies. It features a shy union lobbyist finding her voice while battling a pragmatic Senate staffer and falling for him in the process. If you’ve ever thought, “I want to read a romance that’s like The West Wing but with more steam,” then friends, this might be the one that you, ahem, want.

And two more podcasts that I recorded in the last year dropped and are available for your listening pleasure. I joined Elle Greco on Steam Scenes to talk about Chick Magnet. Elle and I both work in higher education, and so we ended up having a long conversation about the weaponization of taste in the academy, before she reads and we dissect a steamy moment with Will and Nic.

And I also went on Turn Me On (Spotify and Apple) to talk about Funny Guy. This is a fascinating convo because the hosts aren’t necessarily romance readers, so we talked about the goals of romance and romance in popular media.

2023 in Review

No matter how you slice it, 2023 was a good year for me. But the way I know that is not simply my accomplishing several tasks, it’s my hungering for 2024. At the close of 2022, I was buzzing with anticipation. I had worked so hard on Chick Magnet and Funny Guy, they were finally going to see the light of day.

The sun has risen and set on them now. I love these books. I love what they taught me and how I had to grow to write them and revise them and market them. But what I’ll always be most grateful to them for is that they helped me see the future. They weren’t the highest mountain, it turns out, but having climbed this hill, I can see it now, in the distance. I just have to keep going.

Let’s look back first, though.

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